The difference between last year and this year for me is substantial.
This time last year life was…in a word, miserable. I was struggling through so many things. First, we had been trying to conceive for two years. But on top of that, we had a miscarriage in January 2014 and were trying to make it through the grieving process.
This year, after undergoing months of fertility treatment with some amazing doctors and the unwavering support of my wonderful husband – were are counting down the days until our first child is due.
It has been a crazy journey that we started three years ago when we decided we were ready for a family.
While I feel so lucky and blessed to have this little one on the way, Resolve and the Infertility Community are near and dear to my heart.
I spent so much time wondering why me? And why doesn’t anyone else deal with this? And then I realized one day that people do…but they suffer in silence. They feel isolated, embarrassed, alone and scared. Dealing with infertility is hard enough but doing it alone is even worse.
When I opened up about our miscarriage and everything we were dealing with, it felt amazing. I first really opened up last year during NIAW. It was incredible how many people reached out to me. Not only did people contact me with support but it was the amount of people who came out saying they struggle too –those dealing with infertility or with a miscarriage. I was shocked at how many struggled with these issues and never said a word. Something I understand so well.
So for those people and others who feel alone, my blog this week will primarily be dedicated to National Infertility Awareness Week to remind everyone, You Are Not Alone. Join me with the Bloggers Unite Challenge.
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Here is the first post on infertility that I wrote last year, in case you’d like to see it.